"For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain." Philippians 1:21
These
 very profound words hold such an impact. One Sunday, as our Pastor was preaching from this text, he
 began to cry.  He said as he studied this passage, the realization
 of his mortality grabbed him.  He wrestled with the fact that he really
 wanted to see his children grow up.  He wanted to be here with his 
family.  And yet, the scripture teaches that to die is gain.
Day 
by day, as we each walk the pathway we are to go, life just seems to 
keep going.  Until we are stopped in our tracks with the loss of a loved
 one or friend.  It's then that we start thinking of the "other side".
12 years ago, on a Sunday morning, during the middle of a raging 
hurricane, my BFF lost her battle with cancer and walked into the arms 
of Jesus.  I have missed my sweet friend all these years, but on that Sunday, 
the Pastor's message brought a sense of peace to my heart. Diana was such a special friend. We were friends for almost 20 
years. She always encouraged me, with unconditional love and always with a smile.  It is selfish of 
me to want her to be here, when she has gained so much more.  As she 
reached out her hand that Sunday morning, she left behind her tired body
 to walk with Jesus.   I can almost picture her, in my minds eye, looking
 back at all of us and saying, "It's all right, I'm whole now."

Mark
 8:35 states: “For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever
 loses his life for my sake and the gospel's, will save it”  (ESV).
Jesus Christ offers you the greatest freedom - in learning how to die, we  learn how to live.